My friend Joshua Keay recently told me that I was a “master of the Georgie arts’‘ — the kind of cryptic compliment which he specialises in. When I asked what he meant, he explained that I had achieved a level of uniqueness in who I was, and I didn’t pretend to be anyone else. He said that ‘when you’re truly yourself, people keep showing up for more — they get addicted to your unique insights and ways of being, and you’ve got a monopoly on the supply”. At first, I didn’t necessarily see it as a strength, but when I reflect on the people in my life, I notice that I am most drawn to those who are fundamentally themselves. Genuine-ness, authenticity, uniqueness, realness - call it what you will - is attractive. And not just attractive, I also believe it is one of the most essential ingredients for meaningful lives and meaningful conversations. When we are truly authentic, we tap into the essential truth of life: that every moment of our lives has a unique expression. 

We all love anonymous feedback forms because they spare us from having to look someone in the eye and tell them what we really think. 

This avoidance is of course understandable - we can all recall a time when someone tried to unsuccessfully change our behaviour. So why would we go through the same pain with someone else?

But the truth is, words on paper don’t change behaviour - conversation does. 

The only problem is we don't know how to have these conversations.

The truth is, whether you identify as an introvert or an extrovert, socialising is tiring for everyone. What’s important to understand however, is why you get drained and how you can manage it.

So listen up introverts! We’re about to reveal why you feel drained when socialising and four ways you can manage it. Our tips are simple to understand and easy to action so you can have authentic and energising relationships with anyone.